Hidden Wisdom In Your Goals

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How to achieve life fulfillment right now using the hidden wisdom in your goals Goals are how we change our lives, right? Want to feel better? Set a goal. Want to make money? Set a goal. Want to take over the world? Set a goal. Goals are generally good. To get somewhere, you need to […]

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Making Things Happen – Part 2

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Last week we talked about the difference between an external and internal locus of control (LOC). Continuing that, today we’re going to discuss habits you can create to strengthen your internal LOC and start making things happen! Small Habits to Create an Internal Locus of Control Let Go Of The Blame When something goes wrong […]

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Making Things Happen – Part 1

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Do you believe, in general, that things just happen to you? Does luck, fate, or destiny dictate what happens in your life? Or do you believe that you make things happen? If you want your life to turn out a certain way, you go ahead and make it. Or are you somewhere in between? Do […]

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Big Changes Through Little Habits

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Why did I call this site ‘An Attitude of Habitude’? What is a ‘habitude’ anyway? To be honest, it’s an old word nobody really uses anymore ‘An Attitude of Habitude’, to me, is creating the life you want by harnessing the power of habits. These habits happen automatically. Like when you wake up & immediately […]

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Spending money on others – selfless or selfish?

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Do you like to give gifts to other people? Do you like being able to buy someone else’s lunch? Do you feel loved or accepted when you throw big parties for all of your friends? These are all seemingly selfless and charitable things. Many of us do them, and quite frequently. But why do we […]

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How to figure out what I want

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For some of us, knowing what we want is easy. It’s crystal clear in our minds. But for rest of us, there doesn’t seem to be a clear “thing” that we want. Sometimes it just depends what area of our life we’re talking about. I know that I want my Bachelor’s degree (which I just […]

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